My fiancé and I both act as law enforcement officers in San Diego. We met at work when I first started almost three years ago. We were on a single squad and my fiancé was interested. Very interested. I attempted to friend zone him immediately, but he wore me down with good wine, Chipotle, and frozen treats. What girl doesn’t want wine and frozen treats?!

Fast forward-we got engaged in February 2019 and immediately started planning our dream day. The wedding ended up being to be at a winery just north of Napa using the reception in my parent's backyard in June. Nothing extravagant. A backyard bash by having an open bar and fried chicken. We had everything set and so the pandemic struck.

We needed to cancel the marriage in Northern California, so as of now still haven’t received our deposits back. Most of our vendors happen to be great, and we’ve received a lot of our money back. We have yet to listen to some and therefore are out the money.

Getting married this season is incredibly vital that you, mostly because you want to start a family and we’re attempting to time it using the most suitable times within our (my) career. I can’t be pregnant and out chasing criminals!

Right now we're not allowed to use any vacation time for you to ensure our staffing with this department is adequate for everyone in our communities. We will work 6 days per week to make up for that loss of money and hopefully, plan our new day.wedding dresses.