Being an Asian male rocks! While other guys are standing around trying to look 'cool' or 'tough', I move up to the hottest girl in the room, do my magic and leave the party with her, while the rest of the 'studs' are trying to figure out what just happened!
Wait a minute! It sucks to be an Asian guy, everyone knows that?! We're short, scrawny and nerdy and we definitely can't pick up women! You know what? Keep telling yourself that and I'll continue to do my thing! Or try to put your negative thoughts aside for a moment and listen to my story.
I'm a short Asian guy and I'm by no means what some would call handsome. I'm also scrawny and I suck at sports, so how come I girls are attracted to me within minutes of meeting me? One word: Confidence.
Yeah, I guess you heard that before. Women like confidence. In fact, women not only like confidence in men, they need confidence in a man to be attracted. A man that isn't confident is simply a turnoff. It's like a fat bokep asia for guys. Attraction is not a choice. Women are hardwired to go for confident men.
'What is this crazy guy on about?'. Hang on there, I told you to put your negative thoughts aside for a moment. If you want to get better with women, then you need to make a decision to get this part of your life sorted out. Period.
If you're anything like I was a couple of years ago then you've been scouring the net looking for clues on how to pick up women. You've listened to all the angry Asian guys moaning about racism and negative stereotypes and you've met these so called Pick Up Guru's who unfortunately all happen to be Caucasian. I know, where you're at, I've been there trust me. I know what it's like to only have date with yourself and some online porn star on a Saturday night.
Confidence comes from competence. Get it?
Being confident in social situations and with girls isn't just something that happens overnight, you can't just tell yourself to be confident and then all will fall into place. Confidence comes from an inner belief in yourself and your abilities. Part one in your journey to mastery is to let go of your negative thoughts; all those negative beliefs about how white girls are out of your league or how that attractive girls is going to shoot you down if you talk to her.